Thoughts from the forum
July 1, 2010
XXXXXXX wrote: "So let's take a sheet of June 2010 I know I'm months was not as exciting as that of May is probably the heat that makes us do few hops ??????"
I would say that the month of June was not exciting at all ... great movement on all over Viet Nam for a couple of other institutions and for us ........ No pairs NOTHING ...... I have no thoughts ....... I have no words !!!!!!!!
But the slowdown is just for us? Perhaps this situation should begin or another topic to discuss here, quietly and with much rationality .... maybe talk about it among ourselves could help us to understand: there are no rules in VN .... well ... accept it ... but these rules are there for all couples of all beings or there are only us? there is a slowdown? well .... is there for everyone? there is no chronological order or anything? for there is none or only for ourselves?
would probably talk just to vent since come to certain extremes seem to be living a tragic comedy (and I was good ).... always in the supreme interest of the child!
At some point, you have the conviction (And you because you live and you can feel the hard way) that you can understand we only between couples who are expecting a very long time just to support us, and chat on the topic.
are no effects of the heat, is that tonight I feel bad, I was born positive .... is that I believe and hope in this July .... but in all honesty ..... I do not think and I hope not.
..............
July 16, 2010
Again I wonder what's going on in Viet Nam.
With my first post July "in the living room" I realize that it was not fully understood, perhaps because I could not explain further and I apologize and I am so sorry to have published the post a few days before the departure of Martina, I never wanted to ruin 'atmosphere of joy that unites us all and if I published it is because my intention is not just touched my friend to whom they are linked by a love that goes beyond the report electronically.
My post did not want to be a call for help or comfort ... .. by friends of the forum I get much love (and often live) every day and what I will never tell you how grateful we are.
Many thanks to all friends and the friends that I have shown there after the publication of the post.
I do not think you are in the run-up to the madness, the wait is hard and it hurts so much but we live as well as in everyday life we \u200b\u200blive so difficult and take many difficult decisions.
We recently met with the psychologist of the institution, nice person and human, but also very serious and very professional, which has seen him in person we are on the brink of suicide.
I never made comparisons between pairs, I do not usually get them in the life of every day. ... Shapes for adoptive couples. Each pairing has a concussion and a joy that I can not tell and feelings are honest mainly because I do not want the other son, I want our child, that child that must be combined / yy us and only him / her.
I did not even make comparisons between institutions, we have chosen the ...... after a careful selection and we chose it for its seriousness and professionalism.
There is much that we renewed our confidence in speakerphone. Perhaps we make so many speeches
between some of us on the phone, can not be developed in the forum because, I believe, every event and communication system has its times of development and maturation and a forum is not ready yet. Bed in XXXXXXXX
the post, my intention was simply to analysis on the current situation with you, with those who are waiting so long, with those who are just waiting, with those at home with your child.
A quiet and primary debate.
again tonight I wonder what's going on in Viet Nam.
The numbers of the statistics do not interest me most, when they were only interested in clear and understandable and, in this case, they are not for a purpose and declared.
What matters is that the matches are very few, it is useless to deny it: we know almost everyone, we exchange news, we feel, we write.
And if we're wrong? and if there were 10 matches per month? We'd all
lietissimi.Invece if it continues will we all be filled in the application of the law with all the unknowns that might entail.
the blog of a new mother viet, I read the thoughts that are my thoughts and have been for a while.
We expect everyone to be so, but we expect too much from everyone in our nice houses with our amenities and surrounded by the people.
our children as they are? The didi do a commendable job and we will be eternally grateful to these girls for their work ... even for just a caress made to a child.
our children as they are? I am sure that my child is born in, I am sure to many factors .... who is caring for this child?
It 'just that these children are in institutions so long?
Who will pay for the damage?
And what can a body do? I am not referring only to our institution, I am referring to all entities.
If you read that in some situations the children are deprived of all, how do you keep quiet? Sure, you can not do anything but you can not feel anger and disappointment at how those much-discussed "interest of the child" being trampled and ignored.
.......
I hope and believe, however, have not caused offense to anyone.
'm not crazy, do not look for comfort, do not suffer the summer heat.
These thoughts accompany me for a lifetime.
This is a forum for adoptive families and I am sure that these thoughts do not belong to me alone.
I reported here two of my post from the forum and then not forget that I follow in the future.
July 1, 2010
XXXXXXX wrote: "So let's take a sheet of June 2010 I know I'm months was not as exciting as that of May is probably the heat that makes us do few hops ??????"
I would say that the month of June was not exciting at all ... great movement on all over Viet Nam for a couple of other institutions and for us ........ No pairs NOTHING ...... I have no thoughts ....... I have no words !!!!!!!!
But the slowdown is just for us? Perhaps this situation should begin or another topic to discuss here, quietly and with much rationality .... maybe talk about it among ourselves could help us to understand: there are no rules in VN .... well ... accept it ... but these rules are there for all couples of all beings or there are only us? there is a slowdown? well .... is there for everyone? there is no chronological order or anything? for there is none or only for ourselves?
would probably talk just to vent since come to certain extremes seem to be living a tragic comedy (and I was good ).... always in the supreme interest of the child!
At some point, you have the conviction (And you because you live and you can feel the hard way) that you can understand we only between couples who are expecting a very long time just to support us, and chat on the topic.
are no effects of the heat, is that tonight I feel bad, I was born positive .... is that I believe and hope in this July .... but in all honesty ..... I do not think and I hope not.
..............
July 16, 2010
Again I wonder what's going on in Viet Nam.
With my first post July "in the living room" I realize that it was not fully understood, perhaps because I could not explain further and I apologize and I am so sorry to have published the post a few days before the departure of Martina, I never wanted to ruin 'atmosphere of joy that unites us all and if I published it is because my intention is not just touched my friend to whom they are linked by a love that goes beyond the report electronically.
My post did not want to be a call for help or comfort ... .. by friends of the forum I get much love (and often live) every day and what I will never tell you how grateful we are.
Many thanks to all friends and the friends that I have shown there after the publication of the post.
I do not think you are in the run-up to the madness, the wait is hard and it hurts so much but we live as well as in everyday life we \u200b\u200blive so difficult and take many difficult decisions.
We recently met with the psychologist of the institution, nice person and human, but also very serious and very professional, which has seen him in person we are on the brink of suicide.
I never made comparisons between pairs, I do not usually get them in the life of every day. ... Shapes for adoptive couples. Each pairing has a concussion and a joy that I can not tell and feelings are honest mainly because I do not want the other son, I want our child, that child that must be combined / yy us and only him / her.
I did not even make comparisons between institutions, we have chosen the ...... after a careful selection and we chose it for its seriousness and professionalism.
There is much that we renewed our confidence in speakerphone. Perhaps we make so many speeches
between some of us on the phone, can not be developed in the forum because, I believe, every event and communication system has its times of development and maturation and a forum is not ready yet. Bed in XXXXXXXX
the post, my intention was simply to analysis on the current situation with you, with those who are waiting so long, with those who are just waiting, with those at home with your child.
A quiet and primary debate.
again tonight I wonder what's going on in Viet Nam.
The numbers of the statistics do not interest me most, when they were only interested in clear and understandable and, in this case, they are not for a purpose and declared.
What matters is that the matches are very few, it is useless to deny it: we know almost everyone, we exchange news, we feel, we write.
And if we're wrong? and if there were 10 matches per month? We'd all
lietissimi.Invece if it continues will we all be filled in the application of the law with all the unknowns that might entail.
the blog of a new mother viet, I read the thoughts that are my thoughts and have been for a while.
We expect everyone to be so, but we expect too much from everyone in our nice houses with our amenities and surrounded by the people.
our children as they are? The didi do a commendable job and we will be eternally grateful to these girls for their work ... even for just a caress made to a child.
our children as they are? I am sure that my child is born in, I am sure to many factors .... who is caring for this child?
It 'just that these children are in institutions so long?
Who will pay for the damage?
And what can a body do? I am not referring only to our institution, I am referring to all entities.
If you read that in some situations the children are deprived of all, how do you keep quiet? Sure, you can not do anything but you can not feel anger and disappointment at how those much-discussed "interest of the child" being trampled and ignored.
.......
I hope and believe, however, have not caused offense to anyone.
'm not crazy, do not look for comfort, do not suffer the summer heat.
These thoughts accompany me for a lifetime.
This is a forum for adoptive families and I am sure that these thoughts do not belong to me alone.
I reported here two of my post from the forum and then not forget that I follow in the future.
